Skip to main content

Still Sort of Pregnant

I had another ultrasound and bloodwork today. The doctor did the ultrasound this morning and he did find a fetal pole, which is good news. My HcG today was 1851, which is not so good. I'd really feel better if these numbers were doubling or more. They want to see me again on Friday for another ultrasound and bloodwork. By then I will be 7 weeks pregnant. We should see the heartbeat by then, if this is viable. On one hand, my doctor is very good, giving this a chance to see if it will proceed to a healthy pregnancy. I on the other hand, am jaded, as I've had two losses in the first trimester and both those losses had some early indicators of issues. Things with Phoebe were right on target.

Phoebe was sick over the weekend. She had a fever of 103 on Saturday night, so we took her home from her grandparents. She was supposed to stay there all week. Sunday, we loaded her with fluids and made my famous chicken soup. I think I have perfected that recipe as everyone in the house loves my chicken soup. I'll need to post that recipe soon. She had a fever still on Sunday morning, but in the afternoon when the motrin had worn off, she was fine. Eventually she did hit 101 in the early evening, but this morning she woke up fine and has been fine all day. She'll be going back to the in-laws either tonite or tomorrow. Not sure which. I stayed home with her all day (other than my doctor appt that she needed to come with me) as Leo was in New York City for work.

Comments

Hopeful Mother said…
Still praying for you here!
I've been thinking of you. I wish it were a on-spot pregnancy but things never work out just the way you want. I hope it's still on its way to a healthy baby in the end. Hang in there.
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I hope Phoebe is 100% soon. Thanks for the update.
Happy said…
Oh, my little wine drinking buddy... You're in my prayers.
BigP's Heather said…
Thinking of you.

Unfortunately, I will be out of town by Friday and will be gone for over a week. I don't know what computer access I will have - at best I can check email. I would love it if you would email me and let me know how you are doing! bigpandme@yahoo.com
Loren said…
I haven't lost hope for you. I wish things were more straightforward! The roller-coaster never ends, does it?
I can't wait to see your chicken soup recipe. With all you're going through, I can't believe you would be thinking of us hungries out here. ;)
Hugs and happy thoughts...I really hope for good things on Friday.
sara said…
I have been such a bad blogger lately, and I am just getting caught up with your last week. I'm really sorry that you have to go through this limbo kind of land - no one should have to do that after the long haul you've already been down. I am hopeful that the fetal pole is a sign of good things to come, and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers that everything goes well Friday. Again - lots of good vibes and hugs, and for Phoebe to feel better as well :-)
Brandy said…
I just wanted you to know that I'm thinking about you and still wishing the very best for this pregnancy.
Kate said…
Thinking good thoughts for you!
Just Me. said…
I am praying BIG TIME for you!!!!

((((hugs))))
I hope things even out for you soon and this pregnancy stabilizes happily for you soon.
Anonymous said…
I am hoping and praying that every thing turns out o.k. for you. Maybe its just a lazy baby, wanting to take its own sweet time. That's what I hope anyway...

Good luck and I'll be thinking about you.
Emy said…
I'm so glad I stumbled on your blog from Sophie Lu's. I feel like I'm all alone in this secondary infertility thing, I've never even used that term. We're 5 1/2 years into this journey, and it really stinks, as you know. I'm so happy to see the list of blogs you read! What a relief!

Praying you get great news on Friday!

Popular posts from this blog

Bouncing Back From Depression

I've been pretty depressed lately. Monday I hit my all time low, which coincidentally was also my dad's birthday. Needless to say I'm sure I'm on his not favorite child list as I forgot to call him I was so depressed. This whole two mortgage thing with no contract in site is really frustrating. Especially when lots of other houses on our block are selling. Our house is really very lovely, just no pool. It has a really flat backyard perfect for putting a pool in though. Anyway, on Monday, Mom called to make sure I didn't forget to call Dad and tell me she read my blog over the weekend and sent me an email about it. Sorry, Mom, I still have yet to check my emails to see what you had to say. Mom told me I needed to bury a statue of St. Joseph in the yard to get it to sell quicker. Wish I knew that sooner. I was going to wait for her to mail me hers, but yesterday I got really mad at myself and wanted to do something to improve my situation, so I found the nea

Bad Dreams Go Away Magic Spell

Wow! Two posts in one day!!! I just had to blog about this. Indigo Girl had posted about her daughter having bad dreams and looking for advice. I had to post what we do in our house to keep away bad dreams. I have to admit it was one of my most brilliant mommy moments as I pulled this one out of my a$$ when I came up with it. When Phoebe was about 3 or 4 years old, she started complaining about nightmares. I knew it was half true and half stalling for bedtime. She has always been very into witches, wizards and spells (heck she was named after the character on Charmed and my due date was Halloween), so I came up with a magic spell on the spot to keep away bad dreams. I figured all it had to do was rhyme. I will share it with you all and feel free to try it if you need it: Bad dreams, bad dreams go away In Phoebe's dreams she must play She should dream of ice cream and cake Until the morning when she wakes She loves it! She still asks for it sometimes if she's had a ni

Phoebe's Fifth Grade School Picture

Here's Phoebe's 5th Grade School Picture.  I really like her in red or bright colors.  She's definitely becoming quite the little lady.